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The most important question is not posed.
The resolution to any problem is always about the question and no one in the fields of coaching asks the single most important question to resolve any behavioral or psychological issue and that is "What brings it about to begin with?"
The mental health system continues to be satisfied with guessing.
The DSM-IV describes "why behavior is broken" as opposed to "How can I fix it?"
There are many things that could be blamed on. 1) The Pharmaceutical companies spend billions every year to convince you that all you need to do is wait for the next pill.
2) Neuroscientist convince you that the human mind is way too complex to find an easy answer.
The bottom line is none of these communities is asking the question that will ultimately lead to a clear definitive answer that would at minimum give them a reasonable place to start.
No Question = No Place To Begin
Without at least asking the question of "What brings about an emotional state and behavior? you simply have no place to start and no other choice but to guess.
If you are not asking the right question you are not going to have the answer which will only allow you to guess.
One will never be able to prove what one says one can produce if one is guessing.
You cannot put someone in control of the most powerful force in their life if you do not know how it works.
George Maris
SR® Life Coach
P.O Box 55568
CA 91385
FAX (661) 255.1919
george@lifecoachcenter.net